Who Am I?

My Story

A bit about me

I offer my services to families who are expecting or currently breastfeeding, mixed feeding or chest feeding their baby or babies, as an IBCLC lactation consultant, a mindful breastfeeding practitioner, baby massage instructor and mothers’ circle facilitator. I work face to face in my locality of High Barnet and surrounding area (North London, South Hertfordshire, UK).

I am Eszter, mum of two spirited girls, both of whom were breastfed. I have been a breastfeeding counsellor with one of the UK’s leading breastfeeding charities since 2013, and an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) since 2020.

My passion is walking with mothers through all stages of matrescence: the transition from woman to mother. My focus and expertise lies in infant feeding and space holding for the emotional challenges this life stage exposes you to.

My mothering journey woke me up to the fact that many adults of childbearing age just never had the education and experience to be fully able to live, breathe and manage all that is involved in the biological and psychological implications of pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding (and otherwise nurturing a baby). I became a passionate advocate of informed choice in birth and breastfeeding /chest feeding. (Please see my list of favourite books to read under ‘useful reading’ and top websites to visit, to help prepare you for birth and breast/chest feeding.)

This led me to work with one of the largest breastfeeding charity organisations of Great Britain in 2013. I have been volunteering thousands of hours ever since, to families of breastfed babies, especially the mother-baby dyad. These years of supporting families has led me to believe that you can only ever be successful at these life skills of nurturing a baby, if you have as much support around you as possible.

This support might take the shape of a loving partner, a close family, your neighbourhood, baby classes, breastfeeding drop ins, or social media, as well as all the professionals who advocate for your cause and help you achieve your goals. Your gut always tells you who these people are. I can help you find this ‘bubble’ or ‘village’ before your precious baby is here and I will try to become a small part of what provides the best possible support for YOUR needs.

After many years of practice I decided to take my knowledge and qualification to the next level, so I have qualified as an IBCLC. See what I can offer you on your journey, in the ‘My services’ and ‘What’s an IBCLC?’ sections.

My practice is always growing and evolving, so please ask, if there is something you would like and does not currently appear amongst my services, as I might be able to help you or signpost you to the relevant local service or colleague.

I also offer baby massage classes in various locations, please click here to find out more.

In addition, if you are North London based, please check out my beautiful Mama Haven offering, with several collaborators: a warm and welcoming space to support all mothers, weekly, in person, in the first year of their parenting life (starting in late pregnancy if you wish). Come and ‘melt into motherhood’ with your local community and under skilled guidance.